Relationships FAQ

How can you be so sure that your program will heal my broken heart?

Why did you choose "broken hearts" and "trust in relationships" when there's so many human problems out there?

Once trust is broken, isn't that the end of any relationship?

Would there ever be times when you'd advise ending a relationship?

Q. How can you be so sure that your program will heal my broken heart?

A. Of course, everyone is different, but we all have some needs in common. One basic human need is to feel good, and another is to be loved.

As a trained psychotherapist, and as someone who's had my heart broken more than once, I know how to press the right "buttons" so that you can find your way back to peace of mind, self confidence and happiness - yes, and love - again.

Of course, I can't do it for you. Just reading the material isn't enough. You have to do it. But that's the joy of self help - that, and discovering that you have the power to heal yourself without resorting to pills, drugs, alcohol or staying paralysed by something that happened in your past.

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Q. Why did you choose "broken hearts" and "trust in relationships" when there's so many human problems out there?

A. Because there's no pain deeper. I don't care what you do for a living - you could be a politician, a priest, a soldier or a stockbroker - you won't be much use to anyone if your heart is broken, or if you're bitter because you think love is not for you.

The world needs happy, fulfilled people. It's that simple.

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Q. Once trust is broken, isn't that the end of any relationship?

A. It doesn't help, but it doesn't have to be the end. It can be a new beginning. I'm not saying it's easy to get back from here, but most things worth preserving or fighting for aren't that easy are they?

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Q. Would there ever be times when you'd advise ending a relationship?

A. Absolutely. There's no "one size fits all" in relationships though. You have to find out what your own values are. Where one person could look at someone's relationship and think, "I could never stay under those conditions," other people can be perfectly happy, just as some people love to live in wild places, whilst others prefer city life.

It's all covered in my "How To Trust Love Again When Your Heart's Been Broken" program.

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